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divorce. i decided this is the word i hate the most. i am lucky enough to never have experienced this first hand but i have seen the results. a horrible mess. there are so many bitter people and so many dreams that vanish. the little girl i babysit is a miserable person. at the tender age of 10 she trusts no one and hates people who have fathers. she doesn't know why her father was forced to leave but she blames anyone but him for his leaving. he raped a 13 year old. just wait until she is old enough to hear that. there are such horrible people in the world sometimes it is hard to trust anyone. think of her mother. she married this man thinking he was the best and she loved him with everything. then that happens. its so horrible. my other friend Jacqui is 19 but is in the middle of her parents. they scream all day, her dad hiring private investigators, and snooping in on his daughter. its terrible. and then what happens. the divorce papers come and life moves on. people are hurt and then your years of being together are forced to disappear. i don't get it. there is no purpose to this rant and i hope i haven't hurt any feelings. i just thinks that this proves to us all that before you get married make sure they are the one, and don't hurt your children in the process. divorce is just such a strong word that it makes me cringe...